How To Prepare Yourself For Business Networking Events

Preparing yourself for business networking events is easier said than done. Many people completely misunderstand the point of networking events and have little idea why they are attending them apart from hunting for business, or what they should be doing in order to enhance their credibility at the events.

Over the past year, how many business networking events did you attend?

Were the events you attended helpful?

Out of all the people you met at those events, how many of them are you still in contact with right now?

Working The Room

Working the room is exactly as it sounds.  Work the crowd, whether individually or as groups, and produce results through finding good contacts and opportunities. You do this by spending your time interacting; talking with people, listening to people and answering any questions people may have about your industry or your business. Likewise, ask them questions about their business and their industry. Make the topic of conversation about them as this is smarter and more strategic to networking then talking about yourself the entire conversation.

There are different reasons why people attend business networking events.  Some attend so that they can meet specific people. Others take part to meet people who are in the same industry as they are, and some people attend to meet potential clients. However, remember that a networking event is not a hunting ground and if you go in with the attitude ‘let me sell my services to see how much business I can pick up’ then you won’t get very far.

Preparing yourself for business networking events

There are also people who attend networking events not only for business, but to identify with other people and see where socialising will lead. Possibly to make new friends, to see if there is a potential job vacancy at other businesses or the opposite, to recruit or headhunt brilliant candidates to join your team. Whatever the reason for attending a networking event, you must prepare yourself so that you will produce the positive results that you seek.

6 Tips To Prepare Yourself For Business Networking Events


Establish The Mindset Of A Networker

Give yourself a few minutes to tap into the right mindset. To do this, focus on your goals. You are going out there to connect with new people. You want to leave those new people with a good, lasting impression. You are also going out there to find people who can help you and people you can help. Have an open mind and show a genuine interest in the people you meet. Use your smile to break the ice. Be mindful of mutual benefits and figure out how you can help other people first, and then they will naturally help you in return.

Having the networker mindset will help you remain focused on your goals and guide your intentions perfectly when you approach people. By this, you’re making yourself attractive to others.

Be Knowledgeable Of The Event

Before you attend an event, you need to make sure you know what  kind of event it is and be knowledgeable of the theme. Here is a list of things you should figure out prior to attending:

- The Key Topic

- Who The Keynote Speakers Are (if any)

- What They Will Discuss

- The Industries That Will Be Discussed

- The Crowd The Event Will Draw

By figuring out this information beforehand, you will know what to expect at the event and who will be there. This will help you assess what you will be able to gain and how you can potentially help other people who attend the event.

Who Will Be There

This is an important tip. You should find out who or which company representatives will be at the event. For many business networking events, you can actually find out the complete list of people attending. You may find the list of attendees at the event’s website or by calling the organising team. If the event has set up a ‘meet up‘ page then this can provide a complete list. There are also networking event apps like ‘Bizzabo‘ that can reveal this information for you if it’s being used by the organisers.

After you have seen the list of attendees, make a note of specific people that you would like to talk to at the event. Research the attendees through searching on Google  and social platforms like Linked In where you can learn more about the people before you meet them. This valuable information will help you approach them in confidence and talk about what interests them which in turn, will leave a lasting impression of you.

When you attend a networking event with people in mind, and you have gathered information about those people, you will be able to break into conversation and form connections instantaneously. This is a great way to maximise the effectiveness of networking.

Be Memorable

You should aim to attract people by being visible. Firstly, you need to wear nice clothes that adhere to the dress code of the event. Secondly, why not add something to your outfit that makes you standout such as carrying a unique, vintage notebook, wearing an outstanding tie that speaks character or even a lapel pin which can be a conversation starter. These little additions will draw people to you and give them something to remember you by.

Business people at a business networking group

When you dress well, you exhibit self-respect. You also show that you respect your position and the position of others. The additional accessories like the vintage notebook makes you stand out and people may find that interesting enough to strike up a conversation.

Prepare Your Introduction

The first impression you make on someone is very important. Before the event, prepare your introduction pitch. Use these tips to help you prepare:

  1. Focus your pitch on who you are and what you are looking for.
  2. Also, express your personality. Add some emotion and passion to your personal story, and try to be less informative and monotonous.
  3. Repeat your name twice in your introduction and at least one more time during your discussion.

Use this format: ”Hello, my name is John.”  Stop for a second and continue with, “John Smith.” Then in the conversation insert your name, here is an example: “A great piece of advice I received from him was when he said, ‘John’….”

This will reflect your confidence and express your personality. This will help you communicate your message effectively and also, leave little chance of the person forgetting your name as they may be a little hesitant on asking for it again.

Do Not Forget Your Business Cards

I firmly believe that the more prepared you are for an event, the better you will be able to set good foundations. The people you meet at business networking events could be some of your best connections with whom you can build long term relationships that are mutually beneficial.

Business people at business networking events

So, you really want to keep business cards at hand and plenty of them. During the conversation, exchange business cards and actually make note on one side where you met the person. If for some reason you don’t have any cards, don’t worry take their card and promise them you’ll be in touch.

I am honestly interested in what you do to prepare for networking events. Are there any benefits you feel you have gained from your preparedness?

Please share your experiences and ideas in the comments below!

Author: Lirone Glikman

Networking Specialist, providing practical tips to achieve business and life goals. Marketing Specialist and an Entrepreneur. Loving life, people, travel and arts.

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  • Rich Allen

    Over the years I’ve found that no one is an “expert”. Don’t allow yourself to be trapped with that phrase. We are all learning, every day. Even after 39 years at what I do, I will not let that happen to me. I am only an expert when I provide expert witness testimony in legal work related to my consultancy.

    Another is to be a “generalist”. While I am a knowledgeable resource in my field, I also attempt to find the various pertinent industry segments I wish to communicate with and learn at least 10 of this groups “buzzwords” and what they mean. At a minimum, you will appear knowledgeable and interested in them and their industry. It will open the conversation if you follow the business news about industry trends and know a few basic facts about many things.

    Use the white space on the obverse side of your card. Have it printed with a few “starter” notes so the other person can use it to remember you by, and when the conversation is near the end, ask for a referral, and offer to do the same. Sometimes this re-opens the conversation to keep moving towards profitable conversations.

    I am uncomfortable in the tired use of “who do you know” and do not like to waste my time with unpredictable results.

    I have determined that there are some basic terms that while euphemistic, and may appear the same, they produce an image that you have worked to develop as has been mentioned You Are A PROFESSIONAL..

    You do not have “customers”, you have “clients”.

    You don’t have a sales pitch, you make a presentation.
    If asked for a “quote” on your services, never do so then. Always let them know you work by proposal to avoid misunderstandings, and each client’s needs are important. You don’t know enough at that time to provide them with their request, but you would be interested in reviewing in more detail what their needs are. Set an Appointment, or close right then by giving a date you will call them to discuss more.
    When responding to their request, never let it be called a “Budget” figure. That’s asking for litigation downstream. It is always, an “Opinion of Probable Costs”.

    You are not busy, you are in conference with a client.
    You are not on the phone, you are in a conference call with several of your clients. (or a consultant or Manufacturer)

    You are not out of the office, you are in conference with a client this morning (or this afternoon).

    Always have the receptionist say Mr. or Mrs. not simply Bill or Mary regardless of how the other person asks for them.

    I don’t personally keep up with team sports, but I’ve noted when people do have a conversation when sports are involved, it can become the entire conversation before it’s realized your time’s up. Similarly as most sales people already should practice, avoid controversy: religion, politics, and sports should not be a part of your conversation. When dragged into this, change the topic, or move on.

    Listen, then repeat what they say. This avoids misunderstanding.

    “Let me be certain I understand what you need, etc.” Or, I want to clear up my perception of your needs. Listen, Summarize, Respond, allow them to speak, and do it again during the conversation. It not only involves them making elaborating about something, it allows them to speak, and for you to listen, and ask pertinent questions now that you understand more about his/her needs.

    If you do not understand what they are speaking about, don’t say something dumb, ask them to elaborate so you have a better understanding of the issues.

    At the end of the conversation, tell them sincerely, that you learned from them what their needs are, and that you will assist when possible. Then do so.

    Don’t use “how are you doing”, or god forbid, “Have a Nice Day”
    You are a professional. Act like one.

    • Lirone Glikman

      Dear Rich – Thank you for taking the time to share this insightful comment! There is a lot of useful and practical info that you have shared and that is well appreciated.

      Let me finish where you have started as I am a big believer of that- a person who is not willing to learn, no matter how knowledgeable he is- will not be able to grow and improve.

      I would like to know more about your profession Rich, I would appreciate if you could email me more at: info@lironeglikman.com

      Warmly,
      Lirone

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  • http://twitter.com/kelsomarketing Louise Walker

    Really enjoyed the post Lirone. Good content and good feedback from other people too. There are so many factors involved when networking, it takes time to get to grips with them all, and this is a good reminder of the importance of being properly prepared. It definitely needs to be thought of as a strategic exercise, having an objective is always a key factor for me.

    • Lirone Glikman

      Thank you dear Louise for sharing this. I believe in objectives as well, they provide a good guide line at networking events and help us stay focused on our “mission”. However, I would also leave some space for unplanned opportunities.
      Thank you!

  • Kent Brown

    Howdy from Chicago! Great post, ideas, and thoughts all around here. I especially like the listening comment by Mike M. and Lirone’s reply. I could not agree more, listening is the key to effective networking and relationship building. Being genuinely interested in a person, listening, and asking a few smart questions can be very powerful. In addition to asking what the person does and why they chose to go into their line of business, here’s a question I think you are all going to love… wait for it…. “What is the biggest challenge you are currently facing?” And so, in Hockey terms (Go Blackhawks!), we have the hat-trick of networking questions: 1. What do you do? 2. Interesting, how did you get into this line of work? 3. What challenges are you currently facing? There’s beauty in simplicity. I’m reminded of 1 of the 7 daily habits of highly effective people: Seek first to understand, then to be understood. When you listen to someone with sincerity and allow yourself to be genuinely influenced by them, they will often reciprocate and have an open mind to being influenced by you, thereby creating an atmosphere of mutual respect and positivity which is the foundation for building a relationship that can lead to future collaboration.

    • Lirone Glikman

      Dear Kent – I am happy you took the time to read and comment, as I know you are a “Business networking veteran”.

      Thank you for brilliant insights!
      I couldn’t agree more with everything you wrote.
      I also believe there is something honest in “Simplicity” that attracts people to one another.

      Thank you! Lirone

  • http://www.tacticalsalestraining.co.uk Marius Fermi

    Great article Lirone! we host quite a few seminar/networking events throughout the year so we’ve seen our fair share of networkers.

    Love the part where you mention being knowledgeable as research is key to having a successful networking session. We recommend that you try to find out who’ll be attending the event so you can then begin to do some research into who you wish to meet and converse with; also you have the chance to do some background research on the companies of the people and how you can be of use to them too!

    • http://lironeglikman.com Lirone Glikman

      Thank you Marius, as you wrote: research is key to having a successful networking session.
      I believe it’s important to be as focused as possible on your goals and objectives in each event. It will increase the productivity of ones networking efforts.
      Thanks for emphasizing how important research is!

  • http://promotionalbusinessvideos.com/ Bhavik Haria

    Thank you for sharing some valuable tips Lirone, a fantastic article. Some great tips from Neil, Bina and Mike too. I’d say; smile and be a good listener, ditch the sales pitch, and remember to follow up.

    Thanks again for sharing some super content!

    • http://lironeglikman.com Lirone Glikman

      Hi Bhavik, Thank you for your kind words and tips!
      This discussion adds some many great points..

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  • http://www.maxoffice.co.uk mike peters

    Some great tips and advice there.
    My tips would be just to be smart, approachable and listen.
    Alot of people do not like networking but it is a very effective marketing tool if used correctly.

    • http://lironeglikman.com Lirone Glikman

      Hi Mike, thanks for taking the time to read my article and comment.
      As you wrote, being *approachable* is an important point!
      When we make other people feel comfortable around us, we are inviting all kinds of opportunities to our life and business… It brings the other person’s “shields” down and helps breaking the ice faster.
      Have a great weekend! Lirone.

  • http://www.ewpa.co.uk Shameer Shah

    Thanks Lirone, this is indeed a superb post to kickstart people off in networking the right way. I absolutely love the part about being ‘Memorable’. Memorable comes in many shapes, sizes, colours and dimensions, but each dimension has got to reflect a beautiful, interesting and professional element.

    Great stuff!

    • http://lironeglikman.com Lirone Glikman

      Thank you Sam! I want to emphasize the fact that being memorable should first and foremost represent “You”! Any memorable tactic you choose (your pitch, clothes, accessories and more) should have a little personal story behind it. People remember stories better than any informative speech.

      I appreciate your support! Thank you!

  • http://www.printexpresslondon.com Mike Moradian

    Hi Lirone
    A brilliant blog on networking.
    Agree with the Ggreat comments from Neil & Bina
    This is what works for me.

    A Networking event is the first step in developing a relationship – from which business will flow.

    My take on being different – is just to practice listening. Show your genuine interest in people by following your curiosity. After asking the other person what they do – have some good follow up questions lined up eg Why did you choose to (go into this line of business). Try to get the human side of the story – you’ll be amazed at how more highly you will be regarded by others, when you show an active and natural interest in them.

    Mindful that you need to work the room, at an appropriate point in the conversation – say that you would like to know more – ask for their business card so that you may call them to set a date to continue to get to know them. At the point they give you their business card – you may give yours – I find this approach much more effective than forcing your business card on them.
    In my experience, the majority of people are reciprocators. In the follow up meeting – the other person will be interested to hear your story.

    The more you get to know about each other, the more you will cement your relationship – People will buy from you once they get to know, like and trust you. And similarly you will develop some really good relationships as you find people who you get to know, like & trust who you will buy from.

    • http://lironeglikman.com Lirone Glikman

      Hi Mike- great comment! Thank you for sharing your tactics and insights.
      I strongly agree with you about the listening part and showing interest and curiosity in others.
      As you wrote “listening” can really differ one from the herd. We all Love talking about ourselves and it’s easy to answer questions about ourselves and not really ask and listen back. When we realize that, it can be too little too late.
      I agree we should be mindful about it! The impact listening has is priceless for our business relationships!

  • http://www.plaintalkinghr.com Bina Briggs

    I would support 100% what Neil has said. Networking is all about commencing, building and maintaining the relationships. People will buy from you once they feel comfortable with you and confident about you.

  • http://www.centraldirectmail.com Neil Giller

    A great blog with some great tips Lirone, thank you for sharing. Being a networker for too many years to mention my rules when networking and / or socialising are as follows:

    1 – Be you!
    2 – Smile:-)
    3 – Be interested and interesting!
    3 – Don’t sell – make contacts / aquaintencies!
    4 – Don’t collect cards!
    5 – Attend with an objective..

    The above stated the major thing that most networkers forget or choose not to do is “follow up”. This in my opinion is complete madness and a waste of time. Thanks again for taking your time to educate us, it was well worth it!!

    • http://lironeglikman.com Lirone Glikman

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts Neil and Bina
      Neil- your points are so important and are the basics of networking. The “real deal” about networking is forming a long term relationship with others, that is based on friendship, positive rapport and mutual benefit. As you mentioned, “follow up” is a must in order to build a relationship and really benefit from any networking event.
      Thank you!

    • http://www.ewpa.co.uk Shameer Shah

      Those are some top tips Neil! Can I add a 6th tip… Be true to others.